(Host) As 2013 gets underway, long-time journalist and commentator Tom
Slayton is thinking about some changes that came into his life in 2012.
The beginning of a New Year is supposed to be a time for renewal – for
shedding bad habits, vowing to be a better, thinner, and more productive
person. However, my big moment of renewal came not this winter, but
last summer – when my wife, Elizabeth, discovered kayaking.
first inkling that she was interested in taking up this lovely sport
came in June, when she suggested that we rent kayaks and go paddling at a
That was quite a surprise because Elizabeth has
never been much of an outdoor sports enthusiast. (She once declared, as I
tried to lure her into a weekend of camping at a Maine lean-to: "I’m
not a lean-to kind of girl!")
However, things have changed since
she fought her way through cancer, chemotherapy, and radiation therapy.
She endured everything with remarkable bravery, even the most hellish
aspects of chemo, and we were happy that her cancer was successfully
removed and has not recurred.
But after it was all over, it
gradually became clear that something inside both of us had changed. I
hope her illness made me more helpful and aware. It certainly helped me
to see more clearly the remarkable woman I’m married to.
disease has made some subtle changes in Elizabeth. For whatever reason –
cancer, chemotherapy, or that brief peek over the brink of her own
mortality – she has become less skeptical, more willing to try new
things. She began going to church with a friend, bought hiking poles,
even began meditating with me occasionally – all things she had
previously not had much time for.
And from that very first June day when she jumped in the kayak, she’s never looked back.
from time to time, she’s had to do some backward looking, since she
paddles faster than I do. Noted one paddling friend: "She’s really
pumped!" I’m bringing up the rear partly because I prefer to kneel in an
open canoe, so that’s what I’m usually in. And a kayak’s double paddle
beats a canoe’s single one almost every day.
But it’s also because our friend was right: She really IS pumped!
summer and fall, we had some great outings, picnics, swimming, and a
few days at a remote lodge on a lake in the Adirondacks. Toward the end
of the summer, we bought her a bright orange kayak – though she’s quick
to remind me that the actual color of the little boat is "mango"!
since Elizabeth, despite the changes, remains a stylish girl, we added a
bright orange hat and a spiffy double paddle with bright orange-red
blades. It’s a treat to see her go tearing across he blue-green water
with her orange hat and orange paddles splashing in the reflection made
by her orange boat.
That’s the image that I am holding close, as
2012 becomes 2013. To me it says many good things – resilience, growth,
a return to health – and the promise of many years of outdoor
adventures to come – together.